heard this one...

har kisi ko muqammal jahan nahi milta
kabhi zameen kabhi aasmaan nahi milta...

well i always used to think that this was incorrect
that since nature balances out evthg,
its not possible for sm1 to get evthg in life so it should actually be like

kisi ko bhi toh muqammal jahan nahi milta

but now i feel that maybe i was wrong. maybe the way nature balances out things is to tk away evthg from sm ppl and give it to others. or mayb its ur own perspective. after all happiness is a choice. just tht for sm ppl, its always a hard choice tht they forcefuly hv to mk. sm ppl find reasons for happiness easily while others hv to go looking desperately and then perhaps settle for simply a faint light at the end of the tunnel.

so may be it is true, ....

har kisi ko muqammal jahan nahi milta
kabhie zameen toh kabhie aasmaan nahi milta

just a thought

Everyone is looking for validation from the outside world. no matter who you are and what you become, no matter "how much you believe in yourself" , nothing makes you feel as secured and sure about yourself and about what you are doing, as does acceptance from the people around us. And by that I don't mean only friends and family, but people in general...the greater the number of people appreciating us/our deeds, the better we feel about ourselves/what we do. So then I guess believing in yourself holds only till you complete whatever you have at hand, against opposition, with only this one thought that what you are doing is right. But how do you define right.
Princeton defines right as correct: free from error; especially conforming to fact or truth;
Now, if right is only that, which is fact and truth, then why would there be any opposition or the categorical and emphatic need to believe in yourself? Maybe because right is also something beyond truth & fact. Its your own personal belief, and foresight and loads of other things as well. And that is why the definition of right differs for every individual. And also because at times for reasons of their own, people oppose what they know is right.
So you believe in yourself, in what you think is right, and do that. And yet, the main driving force, for most of the people most of the times, is that in the end others would see things their way. and Validate them. In the end, we just need others to agree with us, thats all that matters.

Strange...I think I just went around a roundabout...didn't I?!!!

see...I always

Your Personality is Very Rare (INTP)

Your personality type is goofy, imaginative, relaxed, and brilliant. Only about 4% of all people have your personality, including 2% of all women and 6% of all men You are Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Perceiving.

How Rare Is Your Personality?

told people I am not insane and I don't need to go to an asylum...I am just too rare and most mortals can't understand me :P :P ;) ;)

Its ironical

,...that everytime I want to tell someone that they make too many typing mistakes, I end up typing,
"you mkae too many tpying mistkaes"

not to mention that I always spell Worng -> as Worng (instead of worng...see what i mean, I cant help it 8-|